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Today's Tip: Spotting Scam Emails Before You Click Everyone checks scam emails backwards. They squint at the message, look for typos, and hope for the best… meanwhile AI can tell you in 30 seconds whether you're about to get robbed. Let me explain… My friend Marvin called me last Tuesday morning sounding rattled. He's 68, retired postal worker, sharp as a tack — not the kind of person you'd peg as scam bait. But there it was in his inbox… a message that looked exactly like a FedEx delivery notice. A package "couldn't be delivered." Click here to reschedule. Pay a $3.45 redelivery fee. The thing is, Marvin WAS expecting a package. A new pair of orthopedic shoes from his daughter. The timing fit. The logo looked right. And $3.45 felt small enough to not bother arguing about. That's how they get you. Not with the obvious "Nigerian prince" nonsense from twenty years ago… but with a small, plausible, perfectly-timed request for almost nothing. Here's what's changed. Scammers now use AI to write these emails. The grammar is perfect. The tone matches a real company. The little tells we used to look for — misspellings, weird capitalization, broken English — those warning signs have mostly vanished. According to one recent industry report, 82% of phishing emails are now AI-generated, and elder fraud losses jumped 43% in a single year to nearly $5 billion. But here's the good news. The same AI that's writing those emails can also catch them. And one tool in particular — because it can read the live web in real time — is uniquely good at this job. I'll get to which one in a minute. First, here's exactly what I told Marvin to do… and what saved him from clicking that link. |
When Marvin ran his FedEx email through this prompt, the answer came back in about 20 seconds. The sender's address wasn't fedex.com — it was something like "fedex-notify-secure.shipping-track-portal.com." The link in the email pointed to a fake page in a country that has nothing to do with FedEx. And the real FedEx, the AI explained, never charges redelivery fees by email. They leave a slip on your door. Verdict: ALMOST CERTAINLY A SCAM. Action: delete the email, do not click anything, and if you're expecting a package, go directly to fedex.com and type the tracking number yourself. Total time from "is this real?" to "I know exactly what this is": under a minute.
I know what you're thinking. "Isn't it dangerous to paste a suspicious email into an AI? What if there's something bad in it?" It's a fair question, and I respect it. But here's the answer. Pasting the TEXT of an email into a chat window is not the same as clicking the link. The danger in a phishing email is the link — clicking it takes you to a fake site that steals your password or installs something nasty. Copy-pasting the text into a chat box does none of that. You're just showing the AI words. It can't be tricked into clicking for you. The one thing to be careful about: don't paste personal information INTO the email along with it. If the scammer's email already has your name in it, that's fine. But don't add "by the way, my account number is 12345" to your message. Keep the conversation focused on the scam, not on your details.
Start using this today. Next time something shows up in your inbox or as a text that gives you that little pause — the half-second of "wait, is this real?" — don't squint at it and guess. Don't ask your kids and feel embarrassed. Open up an AI chat, paste it in, run the prompt above. It costs nothing. It takes one minute. And it could save you thousands. |
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Skill Builder: Knowing When NOT to Use AI Here's something most AI articles won't tell you. The smartest thing you can learn about AI isn't a clever prompt or a fancy trick. It's knowing when to put the AI down and pick up the phone instead. AI is fantastic for some things. Drafting a letter, summarizing a long document, comparing two products, checking a suspicious email. It is genuinely not the right tool for others. And mixing those up is how people get into trouble. When should you NOT use AI? Three situations come up again and again. First, anything that requires a licensed professional's judgment on YOUR specific case — diagnosing a symptom, drafting a will you'll actually sign, deciding how to invest a 401(k). AI can help you prepare questions and understand the vocabulary. It cannot replace your doctor, lawyer, or financial advisor. They have a license, malpractice insurance, and a duty to you. The AI has none of those. Second, anything emotional or relational. If you're working through grief, a marriage problem, or a fight with your adult child, the AI will give you a polite-sounding answer that may not be wrong, but won't be right either. It doesn't know you. It doesn't know the people involved. A friend, a counselor, or a clergy member is the better call. Third, anything where you need to verify a specific number, date, or fact and being wrong has real consequences. AI tools can still make up facts that sound convincing. If you're using a number in a tax return, a legal document, or anywhere it will be checked against the truth, look it up at the official source. Use the AI to help you find that source… don't use it as the source itself. Here's a prompt you can use any time you're not sure whether AI is the right tool for what you're trying to do.
Think of AI the same way you think of a sharp neighbor who happens to know a lot. A great resource for "help me think this through" and "show me how this works." A terrible resource for "tell me exactly what to do with my health, my money, or my family." The wisdom is in knowing which question you're actually asking. Used this way, AI becomes a tool that makes you smarter — not a replacement for the people you trust. |
